Happiness doesn't seem to come from our circumstances. It's not like we're trying to beat other people or go after these accolades, right? Happiness comes from being grateful and present from what you have. If i had practised some things i knew might be longer lasting. But at least i can't blame myself for what i was looking anthony had a great question asked. What if certain aspects of your happiness, or the pursuit of your happiness,. cause others you care about to be unhappy, thereby making you unhappy? The answer is that those cases are probably less often than you think.