The Importance of Secure Functioning Relationships

I think that it is possible to learn the skill set of secure functioning and then move, begin to move your relationships in the direction of secure functioning. But it's also true that you don't need to do the deep work to uproot the native attachment if you're able to find somebody who will collaborate with you on developing a secure relationship. The thing though about that is that it works better for people that are on the organized side of attachment rather than the disorganized side of attachment.