Communication Gaps Are a Sign of Unacceptable Behavior

If communication gaps are still in issue, there's likely some layer of frustration and a general nervousness. Most people feel that without constant baby sitting and hand holding, things could disappear or blow up at any time. Any intact system will ultimately be only as good as its weakest link. People often grimace when i tell them that my wife and i put things in each other's entrays - even when we're sitting within a few feet of each other. To them, it seems cold and mechanical. But the practice actually fosters more warmth and freedom between us because mechanical things are being handled in the system instead of tying up our attention on the relationship.