Navigating the Challenges of ADHD: Acknowledging Vulnerability and Pain

In 2016, Paulette Perhach wrote a piece proclaiming that all women need an emergency fund — what she calls an “f-off fund.” But when she struggled to secure an emergency fund for herself, she suspected she might have ADHD. Paulette, a successful author and writing coach, put off the evaluation because she couldn’t afford the $260 price tag.

In this episode of ADHD Aha!, Paulette talks about her trouble with impulse buying and online shopping. She shares her family’s history with money issues, including bankruptcy. And she and Laura have an emotional exchange about the ADHD tax.  

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Related resources

• What is the ADHD tax?
• ADHD and managing money
• Paulette in the New York Times: “For women with money issues, an ADHD diagnosis can be revelatory” 
• See more of Paulette’s writing on her website.

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