I Have a Need for You to Spend Time With Me

I'm really concerned about the media because I'm afraid that it's doing blah blah blah would it be the big. Could you give us some examples of translating preferences or strategies into needs we don't want to translate strategies into needs well if some if someone's presenting really a strategy as if it's a need how would you translate that are you making? We've mixed up the need in the preference and the need are mixed together so I would like to try and voicing needs to not have an object after a needtry not to do that so there would be no you he her"