So many of us confuse love with proving. We fall into the trap of making the person we love jump through hoops to earn what should be freely given. Why? Because a part of us doesn’t feel safe. A part of us still believes love will disappear, and we’d rather control it than risk losing it.
In this episode, I expose how “testing love” is often a trauma response in disguise. I walk you through the psychology of abandonment wounds, the shadow that fuels mistrust, and why your nervous system might be sabotaging the very thing your soul is craving.
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