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219. How to Make a Friend & Find a Date with Logan Ury

We Can Do Hard Things

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How to Date a Person Who's Five Foot 10

People often date with the checklist. What's their job? How much money do they make? What's their family like? It's very much like things that could be written on a piece of paper. And so what I advise people is throw out that checklist and instead I have something called the post eight eight, these are eight questions that you ask yourself after a date. The questions are things like what side of me did this person bring out? Do I feel more energized or de-energized at the end of the date? Did we laugh together? Is there something about them that I'm curious about? If you can actually train your brain towards the correct type of checklist,

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