The Importance of Experience in Relationships

I think that's the thing about expectations whenever we have an expectation of something that we do or somebody that we love to turn out in a certain way then we're going to be disappointed by how it turns out no matter what. I mean one of the biggest things I learned in this previous relationship is like assuming anything about anyone or any situation is only going to leave you feeling disappointed because you had an assumption about something and it left you feeling like oh well whatever that assumption was wasn't exactly how it turned out right. We feel like it's a failure for some reason if it doesn't turn out the way we thought it was going to turn out and then we discount that entire experience that we