Is There Anything You Can Do With Your Partner That Causes Tension?

Tension lingers for me. It's not necessarily tension with my partner, but just like a sour taste from like, ol. Right? When we did that, that bug the shit out of me. We did each other's grooming. And so, like, now when i do my make up, sometimes i'll just think about how he made this big like to do over how ridiculous this whole process is. He was like, oh my gosh, just like a a art project, like, i didn't sign up for. I can't believe you do this all the time. Like,  what if you're not good at drawing? Now every time i do my