The Social Contract Is So Strong

Some people just don't know what to say. I had a very good friend who lost his mum, like God, about 10 years after my dad. And I couldn't go to her funeral and all the friends went or everyone was like, Oh, you know, this is thinking I would understand. But then that's, I don't know, self preservation, isn't it in a way against revisiting that pain again? Yeah. Like you said, that social contract is so strong. It's really hard. You should talk about it and cry. ...I think especially if they haven't experienced it, which a lot of people haven't,. Even much older people just haven't