Sally Kohn: My mom got sick at a young age, which inspired me to go on the journey that I went on. She says we can expand this by also recognizing that there is an old version of you. We can't be whole as a person when we're untable to expand into the other parts of ourselves, she says.Kohn: What does your 80-year-old need? Your 80- year-old might need you to have more fun. So these are all really important parts of wholeness.