Are You a Toxic Person?

The biggest mistake that I see in the martial arts world is they try to get too many avatars. And then they got too many conflicting things going on at one time. So it's finding the avatar of who you want, and then filling that bucket with the people who you originally set out to do. The guy who's 45, who wants to have something fun and enjoy his roles and maybe his family trains there. He says he has only had to tell a person not to come back after two or three tournaments. But if a 45 year old guy comes in, he goes, I have three kids, I, you know, I work 60 hours a week. And I really just