In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I’m joined by the brilliant Emma Xin Velicky, founder of Saturday Box—a company designing immersive kink and roleplay experience kits for couples. Emma opens up about her personal evolution from a conservative, sex-negative upbringing to writing romance and co-creating a business that makes intimacy playful, safe, and accessible.
We talk about how Saturday Box blends kink with storytelling, bringing fantasies to life through curated scenes that range from beginner-friendly kink kits to more advanced roleplay adventures. From game mechanics to emotional safety, Emma shares how she and her husband—a game designer—crafted each box to spark connection, deepen communication, and make exploration fun (and hot). I also share my own spicy experience with the Interrogation Scene Box, and spoiler: it did not disappoint.
If you’re curious about how to spice up your relationship, ease into kink with confidence, or just love the idea of turning your bedroom into a choose-your-own-adventure game, this conversation is for you. Tune in for real talk on emotional intelligence, fantasy, and finding freedom through play.
Episode Highlights:
02:22 Creating Playful and Replayable Experiences
03:04 Exploring Different Role Play Options
04:23 Balancing Experience Levels in Kink
06:07 Dominance and Misconceptions
19:26 Safety and Customization in Role Play
27:45 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Kink
29:33 The Problem with Kink Being Underground
35:27 The Joy of Role Play
43:09 Kink in Media and Society
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