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How to Lovehack Your Marriage, With Psychologist Eli Finkel

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Do You Want to Be Right or You Want to Be Happy?

We don't get the privilege of having a maximumly intimate, loving relationship and also being entirely protected from hurt feelings and exploitation. And so all of us need to go through some decision process where we in this decision process ends at an assessment of level of trust. Is it that we deeply eav this is a good person who wants the best for us? Then i think we have a lot of latitude for improving the relationship that are that are predicated on that leap of faith. If both parties are doing the i'd rather be happy than right, you're probably heading down a very, very healthy road.

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