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143. How to Set & Hold Boundaries with Melissa Urban

We Can Do Hard Things

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Controlling Is Your Piss

"I kind of color code my boundaries, green, yellow, red. Green is the gentlest kindest language," she says. "Yellow is ... this person is either forgetting or unwilling or reluctant to respect my boundary." Red is when you interrupt someone's behavior and share a consequence if it escalates.

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