One of the tell tale signs i've heard of dating a narcessus is that you get love bombed. A narcissus would never be able to get through to her, because she will not take your shit. They're really good at zoning in on you and making you feel like you're the most special person. And again, this intensity and the intermittent reinforcement, and it really hooks people am under their claws well s,. It creates lik an addiction, ye; they're usually typically targeting people who are more vulnerable.