How Do We Feel When We're in New Situations?

Our felt sense of self is hosted by the right brain, and it's what we would call the heart mind. In one situation i can feel confident, my body can have energy, i can feel the sense of drive. And on the other hand, another situations, i might be a insecure and might feel small,. My body might contract, i might feel anxious. Or in certain situations, i may feel excited or bored. Those are all fluidly shifting felt, internal experiences. So there's two forms of identity. One is an ego appraisal, which is based on the story we tell. We have to be verses a felt internal set of sensations, which is our heart mind.