The hurt you've been carrying, the burden that prevents you from moving on is coming from your attachment to the outcome you wanted. What can you replace that attachment with? You need a new direction in your head. Give yourself a new direction that empowers you to build something new. Build something new in the ground where that old attachment used to sit. If this was helpful, i'd be so grateful if you'd share the pacass with a friend. And if you'd head over to amazon because you're looking to start a new life chapter that is your life's rewarding chapter, look for my new book,. But first  she writes about how she got through her break up