Spear in War, Not in You

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When you are dealing with high emotional situations, the key is not to try and take it on head first. The point when a person throws a spear of insult at your head, move your head. Spear miss target, leave man empty handed. Why don't you just tell me what's going on here? Oh he is a terrible guy! Sorica asked to talk to them privately for a few minutes. He treated her like an equal,. She said yes, she was upset about something that had happened in front of her. They shared this concern with mike, this and we can't get him out of here. We're trying to set of car keys so that he can separate them

When was the last time someone said or did something that triggered you? How did you feel – frustrated, angry, unsafe? What did you say? The chances are you reacted in one of two ways, either by shutting down, avoiding the conflict or by saying something defensive back because conflict begets conflict. In this episode, I share a story, things I am learning, and leave you with a specific action you can take right now to be able to respond rather than to react to the conflict in your most important relationships. You will be able to use your words to redirect the negative force of others towards a positive outcome.

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