The Convergence of Self-Betterment and Mediation

I've always been someone who's a bit of a people pleaser and also a mediator. I find myself trying to find the good parts in two different opposing opinions. This does cause problems sometimes when you know certain friends don't feel supported or when I'm trying to solve a problem. My mom tells a story where I went to a magic show and she thought she'd lost me. She was looking around and the whole class was sitting there children and gape looking at the stage. So that's kind of probably what the convergence was there for me. And then apparently I never believed in Santa Claus either. But my sister and I would say grandma wake us up and Santa Claus gets