The Importance of Accepting Validation From Other Women

I don't see the changes, the action, him not saying he's going to change his behavior, but changing his behavior. Part of it is understanding, we always say insight is the booby prize of therapy that you can have all the insight in the world. But if you don't actually make changes, the insight is useless. It sounds like there's this idea that you're there to care take his feelings and then yours become almost irrelevant. We saw that everybody in the family took care of your dad's feelings, but I wonder if at some point you thought I want something different than what my mom had. Did you ever think about that? Like maybe I don't want to