Dating Is Not About, Let Me Throw Everything I Have at This

We thought they'd see it as enough, not realizing that actually working in this way created a false idea of the work involved. And to be clear, just because we're doing something, you know, we're giving something, it doesn't give someone else the right to exploit us. There are people who will point out where we're overdoing it and express their discomfort about our approach. When we treat our relationships in these ways, we're not really in the relationship. We're too focused on our efforts and not really paying attention to the situation.