The Second Way People Escape From Freedom

The sado masicis cannot possibly be respecting mutual independence, because they are always dependent on the other party for their existence. Fram calls this a symbiotic relationship. When people are free, life takes on this quality of being emergent and unpredictable. The authoritarian tries to control this ctability by imposing order from the outside. They destroy the very thing that they can't control. This is the answer to how they reconnect to other people.