
104. Orgasm: Pleasure is the Final Frontier with Dr. Lori Brotto2
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Understanding Spectatoring and Orgasm Myths
This chapter explores the concept of 'spectatoring', where individuals mentally detach from their bodies during sexual experiences, leading to self-judgment and distraction. It highlights the detrimental effects of performance anxiety, orgasm coercion, and common misconceptions around female orgasm, emphasizing the importance of emotional satisfaction over strict definitions of pleasure. The discussion also reveals the complex motivations behind women's sexual desire, illustrating that various emotional and relational factors often drive their engagement in sexual activity.
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