I think it can be trickier to do that with past relationships, because those people are still around walking around. You're carrying her with you everywhere you go. And I think like you, you will continue to have relationship with that person. It's just in a different way. Therapy has helped. Yeah. There's different cultures and different languages have have, are there different ways that different cultures deal with these kinds of feelings? Because there's actually, there was this Portuguese term. So, yeah.