You Can't Undo the Event

Growth is when events unfold that are not comfortable to you. You don't have a choice of undoing the event. If it has already happened, no one has ever undone what already happened. The pain that you feel at somebody's death is love. It's a way of expressing your love. So instead of fighting with everybody, fighting with life, and getting weird because things happen, you learn to honor, accept and respect reality. And you learn how to expand yourself.