People need to understand that love isn't ownership Right and high maintenance people think that it's ownership They think that because they're with you they own you. So this is very unhealthy and not only psychologically Not only in your relationship but also for your business or whatever it is that you're doing, right? Keep it simple. Now the fifth one is to limit Surface Area now what does that mean? Well, you want to think of your Your life as like a canvas, right? Just imagine a canvas now The more surface area that you cover the more Crap that you're going to catch,. How do you get less paint on you? well, you just have a smaller surface area,