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Why Do I Get Attached So Quick?
If you are someone who is anxiously attached that is a massive I would say determinate fantasy bonding. You fall in love with the idea of someone rather than their actual character traits and whether or not they are good for you. Set up clear boundaries with yourself around knowing if this person is right for you. If you have felt as if you were not desirable it can be really overwhelming to feel loved by someone. Your judgement is clouded by these feelings such that you ignore things that will inevitably create havoc or not be good for your relationship.