If you are someone who is anxiously attached that is a massive I would say determinate fantasy bonding. You fall in love with the idea of someone rather than their actual character traits and whether or not they are good for you. Set up clear boundaries with yourself around knowing if this person is right for you. If you have felt as if you were not desirable it can be really overwhelming to feel loved by someone. Your judgement is clouded by these feelings such that you ignore things that will inevitably create havoc or not be good for your relationship.
HAPPY 100th EPISODE! In this week's episode, we are celebrating two very special milestones - 100 episodes of The Psychology of your 20s and the 2 year anniversary of the show. I decided to sit down and answer some of your questions around what I've learned from this experience, what advice I would give, how I'm going, my future plans, why heartbreak gave me the best gift I could have asked for and give some lighting round advice to my most asked questions.
I want to say a huge thank you for all the support and love this show has received. It had such humble beginnings. I started it as an audio journal to just talk about my 20s and now its my full time job and my greatest passion. Your support means the world, thank you to all my listeners, new and old for the way you changed my life! Listen now for more sappy reflections.
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