How do we find a balance between being happy and living in the moment while acknowledging all the hurt and suffering going on in the world? Am bailey ricketts wants to know. There's evidence that so many of the things we are talking about that are parts of a happy life help for doing hard things. So far from feeing feeling guilty, i feel like we might want to feel guilty for the opposite thing, right? You know, do what we can to kind of fix things. It really does require not just working on these structures, but working on our emotions too.