How to Encourage Autonomy and Competence in Children

The goals of parenting is to nurture children who are independent, responsible and competent. When children figure out a solution or answer by themselves, they feel more confident and responsible for it. You can nurture independence with the following skills: First, let children make their own choices. Second, respect your child's struggle and encourage them to finish the job. Fifth, promote resources outside the home so children know they need not rely only on you. Sixth, don't prepare your children for disappointment as you'll end up taking hope away from them.