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#310 - Adam Lane Smith - 15 Harsh Psychology Truths
Modern Wisdom
Having an Orgasm for a Female Is a Chore
If you're geared 100% toward earning approval from others out of constant fear of abandonment then sex becomes a performance based on fear of doing it wrong and the other person abandoning you orgasm can be almost impossible under those conditions. There's a second one to this female arousal is based on emotional intimacy which we went through earlier on and perceived security which attachment issues undermine. If all of her sex to performance there's no focus on her own body it's on maximizing approval earned by boosting her partner's pleasure I worked with a lot of young women who had never experienced an orgasm because for a lot of them sex was a way to earn that love and approval and feel like he really loved her.
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