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142. Codependence: How to Stop Controlling Others with Melody Beattie

We Can Do Hard Things

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We Love Them More Than We Love Ourself

We consistently and without fail love the other person more than we love ourselves. It's where we step into the pit of Kody Tenancy. Don't we also believe that we are not worthy of love because we seek out those with whom we can settle to be needed as opposed to being loved? We do. Raising children feels like a big pile of codependency. Well, raising kids is one of the few legitimate circumstances that most closely resembles codependency only it's legitimate.

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