Something that you can also hold on to is remembering that there are so many people in this world, and the bubble that you are in currently just might not be the people who stick around. 20 years from now, you might meet new people that are more empathetic, more carrying and loving and accepting. There wis a quote from the gifts of imperfection that i really liked. Our stories are not meant for everyone. Hearing them is a privilege, and we should always ask ourselves this before we share, who has earned the right to hear my story. And i know a lot of our stories that we shared to day were very light hearted. But when it comes to things that you share that are much more intimate about yourself, remembering that not every one has earned that place in your life to hear that story. And like we've shared in previous episodes, it took almost five years into our friendship before we really shared a lot more about our personal lives with each other, roe and i. And so that it just takes time. Keeping that perspective in mind, i think, well help as you navigate these friendships and relationships in your life. We're also our worst critic, writes

us, replaying all the the previous night's real in our head. A lot of times, there have been instances where i would re reach out to friends, ut ike hanmed, sorry for what i did. They're like, what? Ohlike, that wasn't, oh, what are you talking about? Like, it's fine. So i think the more that happens, because it's happened like a good amount of time, where i would reach out to a friend and like, yor fine, like, don't worry, it made me realize, oh, maybe it's just something that is in my head. And maybe it's just my perception of the situation. What i think in my head is not what my friends or what other people are thinking in their heads either, because i'm fixated on my own thing. Most people are like that too. They're so fixated on their own lives that they're probably not going to be like o vivian fenme shrimp chips in seventh grade, or like omake got the way that she talked about the tricycles, like it may have been like, a oh ok thing, and like when it first happened, but i think, because we're all existing in our own heads, most people actually don't remember not to say this an most people don't care.