The Different Feelings Generated Around Variables

In other cultures I'm always surprised at how different the feelings are that are generated around variables. In India when I went there last time two years ago one of my lovely old friends up in the village in the mountains said to me Ronda's you're looking so old he said you're so great. He was saying it with great respect and delight. And what I found is that after I live in places like Guatemala or Malaysia or Thailand or Burma or Italy or France or Spain or Polynesia where there are extended families, everybody has natural roles within the structure. The whole thing is quite built in then you come back to where this culture where we have quote an aging problem and I realize that