The Importance of Being Emotionally Capable

When you were a kid it was your parents responsibility to be emotionally capable. When you're an adult in a relationship that other person is like another traumatized child trying to figure themselves out. You can love someone with all your heart and be like I actually just can't do this right now. But it doesn't emotionally make sense to our brains. It's almost easier to not easier but because none of this is easy but it makes it more desirable to just hate someone to be like.