How Do Narratives Affect Relationships?

I think narratives affect more than our relationships rit they effect how we live. They effect how we see the world. And part of understanding and connecting with other people is not necessarily ag with their narrative. Nowing thernso let me give you an example, right because i literally had this experience a few days ago, a couple days ago. So a couple comes in, and the original presentation is that they have big fights, nasty fights. She becomes very mean. She gets abusive, she curses. You know, she grew up in a very abusive household herself. And it is about, you know, the story is really presented like, he's fine. Basic lefats not