i think there's this misperception that to be a fun person, you have to be the life of the party. That was not true to me. I mean, don't intrinsically do those things. You can learn. If you let down your own guard a little bit, you'll be able to laugh more with other people. There's a real benefit in a gift you give people by just appreciating them or creating this playful feeling in the interaction. And i iv benthinkig about that a lot myself,. because i think that's a real gift that we can try to give other people.