The importance of truly hearing and validating our children's feelings is discussed in this chapter. Gaslighting, even unintentional, is detrimental to their emotional well-being, and the chapter concludes with a reminder to prioritize active listening and genuine care.
“She’s not good at hearing people,” the musician Mikel Jollett writes of his mother in his haunting memoir Hollywood Park. “If we tell her we’re hungry, she’ll say, ‘No you’re not. You ate earlier.’ If one of us says ‘I’m sad,’ she tells us that it’s not true, that we’re happy now because we’re with her.”
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