How Do I Be A Defender In The Tender Defender Model?
The Mating Grounds Podcast
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The Tender Defender
Tender defender is about being vigilant for threats that are salient and a loom large for women. It's not really about knowing my tie and jujitsu, it's about the perspective taking to understand what feels threatening to a woman. "If you can solve those problems, you're a tender defender," he says.
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