We Can Do Hard Things cover image

143. How to Set & Hold Boundaries with Melissa Urban

We Can Do Hard Things

CHAPTER

The Boundary Is Controllable

Melissa's advice: Be bold enough to cause an outer conflict instead of always choosing inner conflict. "Be willing to disappoint other people before you are willing to disappoint yourself," she says. The green level boundary, the kind of entry level is I need our conversations to feel safe and productive and healthy. Sometimes you call it a fitness principle - minimum effort, maximum effect.

00:00
Transcript
Play full episode

Remember Everything You Learn from Podcasts

Save insights instantly, chat with episodes, and build lasting knowledge - all powered by AI.
App store bannerPlay store banner