The Importance of Expectation in Relationships

"I don't feel that like I feel that deep pure loss of like, I loved my grandfather. He meant so much to me," she said. "It really feels like when a relationship with somebody ends like, well, if they love me more, they would have stayed." She says it's an expectation that only exists within the confines of what their relationship was previously. 'When you're just coming on a relationship where you've just trusted someone so much, it feels so overwhelming to lose that'