The Beauty of Attachment Biology

"We're reorienting people to work the problem, not each other," he says. "It's a dumb to think win-lose or we won't last... We could last, but we'll probably want to keep our eyes open at night" The idea of 'we come first before anything and everyone else' has been around since society began in pre-Columbian times,. He adds that it is hard for therapists to explain why some people are self harming.