If you are an new york cross word and you go, that's cool, but like, let it settle in you. It'll just slide right off like tefon. I think that where life starts getting even a little bit more you start opening up the possibility of inviting in more grateful moments. And i try to find that person, or whatever that thing is in my life that im like, omentoring that person. Ye, maybe i can do more for this person, maybe that pert likes, i don't want to say name. But i knew somebody was struggling over the last fe months with their own kind of bad, you know, career stuff; so i got