ann: My dad's family definitely had a lot of mean honesty in it, and that kind of got him used to that idea. But then he also had things in his family that he didn't like, that they weren't allowed to talk about certain subjects. He felt that sex was was taboo. So at 14, they kind of started to adapt to each other and figure out this way to be together. They decided that separate to each other is not they met, and then one day they thought, let's change how ther're things that shaped them into this.
In an era of fake news and 'alternative facts', the issue of truth and how it is presented to the world has never been more timely. But on a personal level, things are less clear cut. We all tell white lies and withhold info in the name of manners and politeness from time to time and some of the hardest truths can feel very difficult to tell. Micheal Leviton is a writer and musician from Brooklyn whose book, To Be Honest: A Memoir, tells his own story of growing up in a family who, according to Michael, never lied. His upbringing meant that by the age of 29 he could only recall having lied three times in his life. The challenges of being brutally honest on a daily basis have been the basis of much soul searching for the author and also serve as the foundation of a few entertaining tales in his book. He joins Intelligence Squared producer Catharine Hughes to talk about it.
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