Anna: I think he's a good example of burnout or a caregiver burnout survive, like save your burnout that I do see a lot of people in our field go through. He needs to kind of shitter off the pot with his life, which is do you want to be fine happiness within your family and your current identity? Or do you feel like you won't be happy unless you do this other thing? And so then are you going to go do that thing? You can't have both feet like you have your feet in both doors or whatever. Like literally everybody's life is worth about a minute. Everybody's life isworth, like I know it's an