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#634 - Sadia Khan - How To Navigate The Dangers Of Modern Dating

Modern Wisdom

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How to Fix Someone's Attachment

When you're looking at trying to fix somebody's attachment, what are the places that you start up? The first thing I always ask them to remember is your anxiety or your defense mechanism is not symbolic of love. They mistake that preoccupation as love when really it's a signal. It's a signal to show that your trauma alarm has been activated. This person is not soothing you or you are finding the problems in this relationship.

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