Listening Traps - Can We See Our Little Lists?

Ishle: Can we see ourselves as others see us? Thats he really critical, ability to lift sort of our observation and see ourselves from another place. Another trap is e we identified we we interview the chief executive who really, really wanted his team to speak up. But whilst they were interviewing him, he paused and said, well, i do have a little list in my mind of the people that fit and the people that don't. We can send shut up signals rather than speak up ones. I'm about to reach out for some one's opinion, and it's the same person again. How do i spot that in the moment and disrupt it if it's not helpful