How to Create a Container for Couples in the Room

"We have to be face to face an eye to eye in order to co-regulate properly," she says. "That's also with exciting experiences, sympathetic exciting experiences and parasympathetic low experiences of pleasure or pain." The therapist often will create a container, basically a task that is center stage that is actually happening. 'I may ask, do you have a policy for this or is this anything goes? No, we don't have a policy'