You're Not Very Resilient, Are You?

In the book I do go into something just like an investigation mode, largely because this one chapter which tries to get to the bottom of the challenge that I think someone posts for me. Someone said to me, two people actually said to me within a very short period of time, and I told them it's always mildly demoralizing. When you tell someone you're writing a book on resilience and they rolled their eyes, and you're like, ah, okay, okay, can I ask why you rolled your eyes? And the first woman said, oh my God, we've all been sent on resilience training at work and everyone is reluctant to admit it, but it doesn't work and it