accepting that you are a failure is the key to putting your life together. Acceptance helps us move to the present, help us get out of the past. Can acceptance be used with obsessive thoughts? How do i use it? Great question. Silove yoga. What's called thought fusion. An yoga, it's called attachment. And when i work with people who are psychotic, that works very well. Dela: It's not my place to say whether you're correct or incorrect. The question is, do you want to act in accordance with the thoughts that your mind produces?"